12 days

12 days to go and I'm about ready to pull my hair out. I have come to the place where I am no longer naive that I am planning "my" wedding, it is not "my" wedding, it is everyone else's wedding that I just play a role in. Just a few things to vent about... What is the point of putting a date on an RSVP card if no one is going to abide by it?? Then less than 2 weeks before the wedding, you decide to let someone know that you want to come, after they contact you??? no no, that will not do. I already have my seating chart planned out and my cards. I only have enough center pieces for 8 tables and this would make 9! I am so pissed. Why can't people have proper eticate? I am sorry but the date is way past due to RSVP, thats not my fault that you didn't send in the card. However, I know that in the end it is not "my" wedding and I have absolutely no say in the matter.